Whether you live in one of the region’s old farmhouses, a timber-frame cabin, a grand Greek Revival or a cozy cottage or chalet, homes in our corner of the world practically beg to be used for entertaining. Since building our own Mid-century Modern style cabin in the mountains, my husband and I have spent countless hours doing just that—with area friends, pals who drive up from the city, family and even the occasional stranger who lingers a little too long at the door. It’s part of the reason we chose this lifestyle and community: for the built-in brood that fills…